Our habits so rule our actions, that “finding” new and good people to hang out with might feel like a real challenge.

My client’s experiences have been mixed. One tried having lunch with a new gal and it was so overwhelmingly negative, it made her feel like finding and meeting new friends is not worth the effort.

I encouraged her to try again. She met a person at their house driveway because of a product, they stood talking in a soaking rain and are meeting for tea/coffee this week. There is never a guarantee that your next attempt will be good, but trying again always widens the field of possibilities for success.