Resisting My Success…What?

Each time success seems within your reach, whatever it is that you deem success is, do you get what you want?  And having worked so hard for the successful “end result”, do you feel anger, sad, resentful and bad about the loss of no successful result? What if you are...

How Much Money Is That?

People are worried about their income; money; stocks; 401K, real estate holdings; savings etc.  2008 was 10 years ago, but from a money point of view, it feels very close and continues to create worry, even with those who make great money. How much money is enough...

What Do You Hear?

It can be so depressing to witness the simple (but key) act of listening just disappear.  You cannot be effective, accountable and a great manager/leader without some listening skills.  You just cannot.   The most rudimentary of our communication skills is listening. ...

Guaranteed Confidence…What?

Feeling confident and acting in a confident way helps you nail the moments that are important to you.    And I can help guarantee you will feel and act confidently…any time you want.    Remove doubt, fear, panic and critical self-thinking and you can create any...

What Confident Behavior?

Lost and angry feels like a million miles from being and feeling confident.   Yet we spend a high percentage of our waking time being overly interested in being right, reactive and offended…by life; drivers; bosses; loss; ourselves.   When you begin to realize the...

Linking Success to Actions

We are all working on something to improve or change our current circumstances.  Even if it is just an idea, we are working on that idea over and over in our mind.   “What about this?  Maybe that.  Whoa, how about…?”   The other side of thinking through our ideas...

What really is confidence?

You bombed.  It did not go well.  You feel awful.  You are sure someone is going to come up to you and tell you what an awful project; speech; proposal you did.   Now, that this not confidence.   But sometimes we think the opposite of what is true to keep confidence...

Say What? When? Me?

“Ok, today is the day and now is the time.  I am so wondering why the hell I said I would speak to this group.”    “What do I know that they don’t know?  What possible value could I provide?  Everyone that is waiting to hear me speak knows so much more than I do....

What Can I Do To Get Them To Change?

So many people are being poops.   So many challenges to get them to change!   Let me give you the overview of the discussions I have been having with my clients and prospects:   You are dealing with a boss’s boss who is a poop.  And seems to have lots of power. They...

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