Lost and angry feels like a million miles from being and feeling confident.
Yet we spend a high percentage of our waking time being overly interested in being right, reactive and offended…by life; drivers; bosses; loss; ourselves.
When you begin to realize the path you are on is no longer serving you or even feels good, there does not seem to be much access to shifting the momentum to confident and highly successful results.
There are dozens of immediate strategies to create success for ourselves, but first we have to get out of our own way by:
- Stop telling the same “annoyed” stories again and again, whether in our heads or to others
- Not criticizing all the people we have labeled as jerks
- Removing the cause of the perceived pain
- Shifting our view/perspective and approaching our life
and people differently
Albert Einstein powerfully reminds us:
consciousness that created it.”
AND
“Insanity: doing the same thing over and
over again and expecting different results.”
Our habits and repetition of what is not working creates the atmosphere that what we are thinking is actually accurate.
If our thinking is consistently negative, it is not accurate. Our brains are here to serve us, not us serving our brains. What gets stuck, negatively in our thoughts does not serve us. It only attracts more negativity.
We cannot solve negativity with more negativity.
So, what do you do to get close to that remarkable, talented, confident, competent you that you seem to have lost somewhere?
Breathe.
Decide to be in charge of your negative, self-defeating talk and shift to positive, life affirming conversations.
Take small actionable steps.
Sleep, eat well and move that body of yours.
Repeat positive, affirming statements until you believe that they could actually be true. Read, listen to, consume all the positive success producing information possible.
A client and I just concluded our coaching engagement together. The testimonial she wrote about our coaching together touched my heart in so many ways. She is grateful and in awe of her new found confidence.
We used 3 main efforts in her coaching to allow her access to her gifts, talents and powerful confidence which shifted her “wanting” to complete her goals to destroying the roadblocks and struggles she had imagined. Let me know if you would like to know what they are and how they can be powerful for you.
“No leader is ever done learning.”
To your success,
P.S. I currently have 2 openings in my coaching schedule. Is it time for you to use the magic bullet of support and shift your success and high performance results? Email me: I would love to discuss the next steps with you. Take a look at my coaching testimonial page and see what is possible for you. Six months from now you will not be the same person…and isn’t that what you want and have dreamed could be possible??