What the heck is the value of being grumpy?
What the heck is the value of being grumpy?
When we are grumpy, it is us with the issue, not them. Most of the time we give people the benefit of the doubt as to whether we get irritated with them or react negatively to them. Maybe they are having a bad day and that is why it feels like they are being impossible to deal with.
HOWEVER, once you get to the place where you stop being in a place to be tolerant, forgiving, compassionate or fair, we are the problem. Everything and everyone will irritate us and we will become grumpy, at the very least.
Deep breath. Not everyone in the entire world is a stinker. Your reacting to every situation like it is going to be bad or is bad, is nurturing a habit you do not want. Again, deep breath. Give yourself a wide berth and then find a spot to cool off…it is worth the effort.
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Natalie R. Manor
Natalie R. Manor is a consultant, executive business coach, speaker, 5 time author and extraordinary facilitator. Her consulting firm, Natalie Manor & Associates NMA, has attracted global success seeking clients and organizations for 30+ years.
